Each and every 1 of these points are right on the $.

The man I was married to always made less $ than me. Although he claims that he doesn’t care and is so evolved, it bothered him. It got to the point where I was lying about how much $ I was making. I was building my nest egg without him knowing. As soon as he would find out, he’d bully me into spending it on him. He became more and more controlling & the emotional and mental abuse grew…which eventually led to our separation.

He stayed home for a yr and blew through every savings I have and he claims he was ‘working’. He wasn’t..but never stopped saying I need him. He made sure I was penniless when he left because he made it his life mission make me need him. Not gonna happen.

Never again. Anyone I date, if he makes less than me, it’s just dating, and I stay emotionally detached.